99 Years Young With A Goodbye That Still Felt Too Soon… Una Vida Bien Vivida

As a Civil Celebrant, I am forever grateful for the opportunities that are presented to me through both weddings and funerals. It is especially a privilege to be able to provide my services in both English and my native language of Spanish.

In the last few weeks, I have been honoured to conduct some very moving, emotional, and powerful funerals which left me with a deep appreciation for and connection to the families involved.

One of these services was a ‘Celebration of Life’ which I conducted in Spanish for a wonderful lady who was 99 years of age. I had met her at a service earlier in the year when we farewelled her best friend. I met with the family and we spent a couple of hours reliving some beautiful stories, recalling memories, sharing laughter and tears.

I was later able to share her life and stories for her family and friends, in a venue that sat on the water. The room was an ocean of her favourite colour, pink - with all the guests adorned in different shades, and the room decorated with swathes of beautiful flowers. 

The tables sat beautifully, adorned with photos and mementos that took you on a journey of her life. Her family and friends took turns at speaking lovingly about her, and in the end we had a sing-a-long where everyone had a copy of the words given to them. We sang loudly, we sang happily, and everyone came together to celebrate and finally say our goodbyes.

Of course, none of this happens without the funeral homes and directors. They are our point of call for information before we have the important first meeting with the families. I am fortunate to have worked closely on this service with Caryn Barling from Something Beautiful Remains funeral services, where so much dedication and love went into making sure it all ran accordingly.

As I left the service, as it happens with each service, I felt a sense of pride and satisfaction knowing that I gave my best to ensure that each ceremony came from the heart, but most importantly, that those that were left behind felt a sense of closure.